The BS is endless (that is what my friend used to say and it used to make me laugh like crazy!)
I would also ignore. Your story reminds me of one of H's friends "tattling" on me a few months after my H moved out. I was out to dinner with my mom and stepfather and we were eating at a little pub in my neighborhood. It was summer so we were sitting outside. My mom went to the bathroom and my step dad and I sat at the table to wait for her. The next day I got an e-mail from H saying "so and so saw you having dinner with a MUCH older man last night".
Um, okay. I ignored him totally but found it rather ironic as my H had been in an affair for months and months at that time and we had been living apart for at least 3 months and the legal proceedings had started. Funny when the shoe is on the other foot for these dense WAH's!
My H to this day still mind reads and speculates and I ignore that as well. Its rude and stupid and if he does not have the respect or courtesy to ask me directly what he is *sure* he knows then I simply do not bother.
Granted, I am so over this situation, we are legally separated and I am literally counting down the days until Nov. 17, 2010 so I can file for divorce but my goodness, it is interesting to hear the WAS continue to try and make the rules!
I am going to call you "Happy Girl" even though your user name is Sad Girl
