OMG - I haven't posted for quite a while! I didn't expect it to be so long.
The last thing I read was DavidA's thread and I am like him, I feel so depressed when I read the posts. That's why I haven't come by for a while.
I have been sad and mad at my XH lately. After we had a nice correspondence going a few weeks ago he started again about returning the money. So I just stopped writing to him. He didn't give up and wrote at least once a week but I went dark. In the end he wrote that he missed my mails and wouldn't mention the money again. Life was just too short and we had just too many years together to fall out over money. What was money compared to human feelings? He really couldn't see that we should have no contact for the rest of our lives, just because of money. He needs to know I am OK. For him to not allow me to turn to him if I needed advice would not be something he was happy with.
I sent him a brief reply that I agreed. After that I didn't hear from him for about a week after which he wrote that he was travelling. He sent season's greetings to me and my family!
Re my dating I met a few more guys who were very insignificant. I have almost given up but not quite. I will meet two more guys in January and I wrote to one who has the same interests as I.
I am still going out a lot either with friends or on my own.
I will spend Christmas with my family and for New Year's Eve I am going out with some of my girlfriends.
That's all folks! I would like to wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. I hope that you are doing well despite your sitch. Take care my friends.
