Where in the world did that come from !!!

[blownaway65]

I agree completely.

The kids will be with her for about 4 hours XMas eve, that was my concession to fairness. Then we're going to my folks for 3 days - she can deal with that.

And yeah for the past 5 months I've been hanging in, but only for the kids.

Now it's my turn for ME.

I guess I have finally realized that if she is going to come back it has to be of her own accord and I have to make myself into the person she wants to be with, but not for her.

Thanks Sandi, have a good Christmas.