I was just reflecting that this is just about 1 year post bomb (dec 7th). I didn't find the DB forums until April and since that time have been trying to apply the techniques and there has been improvement. He used to dissappear every weekend and sometimes during the week as well. I know he wasn't always seeing OW, she lives too far away. I was out GAL, would come home from my bellydance lessons(!) and he would be gone, just a note about "I HAVE to leave." Anyway, he has improved to the point that he only goes now about 2 weekends a month. I am hoping that things are burning out between the two of them. Last holidays were hard everything being so fresh and new and PAINFUL. This year I really am celebrating for ME and he'll have to either enjoy himself of not, as he sees fit. Only he can decide if he's going to be happy.
I hope your holidays are wonderful!
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
