Unstoppable

[kat727]

NC, I am sorry that you are going through this. My ex went and moved in with his Affair partner/GF(whatever you want to call her) back in July. They became engaged I believe near the end of October. Every other weekend my girls go to their Dad's. The boys are really old enough to decide though ex disagrees.

Anyway, the point is this: I can't control my ex or what happens when my girls are out of town at his home. I am more spiritiual than religious and perhaps that is why it pains me more that he lives with his affair partner versus someone that he didn't cheat with.

I try to teach my kids how to be the best people they can be. I don't want them ever to be afraid to tell me something even if it is something I don't want to hear. As parents I believe we are here to give them unconditional love and support.

Your ex is burning bridges but hopes by getting your dander up, you will do the job for her. She wants you to look like the bad guy. So don't fall for it. Teach your kids by example how to be a good person. Let go of your ex and her life...it isn't yours to worry about anymore.

(((((NC)))))

hugs, kat