Luv, this will give you a LoL. Will you please stop advertising that you're having sex and fooling around? LOLOL Some of us just can't read it anymore. Hahaha Just kidding.
OK, seriously, I think you're getting somewhere, but still talking in circles. I like G's "next foot forward" line. I think part of a wall might come down w/that.
LUV YA!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Luv, this will give you a LoL. Will you please stop advertising that you're having sex and fooling around? LOLOL Some of us just can't read it anymore. Hahaha Just kidding.
OK, seriously, I think you're getting somewhere, but still talking in circles. I like G's "next foot forward" line. I think part of a wall might come down w/that.
LUV YA!
LMAO that did do it for me You're funny girl. Yes, I am gonna take G's lines and run with them!
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
G - am I being cynical to think these little things this morning don't mean anything?
Yes.
Originally Posted By: luvless
My heart tends to think he is up to no good. I am still not ruling out OW.
Trust your instincts. I don't think there is an OW or if there is it could be very recent. I'm not advocating that you fly blind here and ignore the possibility. Anything is possible.
Originally Posted By: luvless
He may just be buying time?
I don't think so.
Originally Posted By: luvless
I will be ready for the laundry list. This will be hard not to react...completely opposite of me ya know? but I'll suck it up!
I know it won't be easy and is against your nature. If you can, think of the laundry list as something good for you. It's never easy when someone points out your mistakes. Especially when they come within a harsh context. The positive side of this is that you can use them to improve yourself.
THIS MORNING - He gets up and is talkative...brings me coffee in bed..whoa wait a minute that's what my H used to do. He asks me, "come talk to me while I'm in the shower." Again! this is what my H does not this man.
Awww! This is so cute! That is awesome he is seeing the part he's playing by saying he's been a bad H. And Gno is right, you should follow up with, "I haven't been the best W either. How can we be better together?..." Go from there...
Originally Posted By: mindfull
Luv, this will give you a LoL. Will you please stop advertising that you're having sex and fooling around? LOLOL Some of us just can't read it anymore. Hahaha Just kidding.
Yeah, no kidding! Some of us are DYING over here. My gosh, I may have to get that bunny I was telling Mindfull about a few pages back..... Hahaha
You're funny girl. Yes, I am gonna take G's lines and run with them!