The thing is I do not see my WAS.... I see me. And I struggle with that. Would I have walked ?
are you saying you see yourself in the role which smartcookie described for herself in her post?
When I read it I don't see that I acted like smartcookie described her H acting, but I do see that my W could well have felt, in our M, just like smartcookie did in hers.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.