I have been trying to make myself happy; thusly to no avail.

I'm constantly angry. He has no idea, as we have had almost no contact for a month.

EA still continuing. Want to set boundary regarding it, but have no clue what consequences should be. Have been reading other's threads on this, but still am unsure.

I have appt with L. on Monday.

Am thinking of moving back to marital home & telling him that if he wishes to end M. he should be one to move out. Also think of telling him that he will help me refinance house so that I can make the mortgage on my own. His reward for being cooperative is that I won't file under adultery.

Ideas, suggestions?


M & H: 40
M: 5.5 T: 7.5
OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09
Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10

still m'd, unsure how to procede

Soapie:
1: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized1
2: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized2
3: http://tiny.com/vulcanized3