Just want my H back

[pearlharbr]

I think you should talk to an attorney and see what s/he says about the tuition money. Of course I think you deserve to get it back, but you'll have to weigh the cost of the attorney against how much you're looking to recover.

BTW, he can't make you feel like a bitch or anything else if you don't allow it. You are in charge of your own feelings.

Stop beating yourself up over this. Really stop. No one is perfect. You tried to save the M, H didn't. That's his choice. But you need to let him own his choice.

I'm happy to hear you can transfer your job to SF. That's one less thing to worry about!

Oh, and let me know if you'll be in SF Jan 6-9. I'm heading out there for a few days of Pearl time. I'd love to get together if you're interested.