Sandi, I have really appreciated the insights that you offer in your posts. I was curious, could you drop by my thread and lend me some of your valuable wisdom?
Essentially, I am Day 10 post exposure of the A and the assertion of clear boundries. She reluctantly agreed to end it with no contact. W is depressed and angry. Of course, Coach says the next step is to release my negative emotions and rebuild our friendship. I am struggling to release my anger. It's happening. Interestingly, she has stopped talking D and has backed off to possible S at some point in the next year as an opportunity for us to work on our R. (Yes, that is right.) I am flirting with coming out of the dark and making myself abit more accessible and open to her. What do you think?
