Ironically during MC she recalls how for years she tried to engage me back into the marriage and now for the last year the roles are reversed and it's me trying to bring her back in.
Before I knew better, a huge 2x4 for her was reading MWD's WAW article that fit her like a T at the time.
She wants to feel those IL sensations again in order to be more emotional engaged. I brought up the LL stat that those feelings only last 2 years except when the relationship is a secret and they may last 3. I've ordered The Art of Seduction as a 180 to expose my wild side. Maybe it can help to re-ignite those fires of desire.
She says she does not want to hurt me and now fears that open discussions of her feelings may scare me away and cause me to leave the marriage. I said that my theshold of emotional pain is much higher than hers, that I wanted honesty and I could handle the truth.
M-49 W-48 M-18, T-24 S-12 -------------- 12/08-ILYBINILWY 3/09-EA & PA Discovered 4/09-Began DBing 1/10-2nd Bomb PA Fully Disclosed
