Glad she doesn't work with him....guess I was confused about that or thinking of another poster.
Cold Turkey includes her not seeing his FB. No contact....is not reading his FB. As long as she does that, then she will not heal from the EA. That is why there can be "no friendship". After Christmas, if she has not blocked him from her FB, then she needs to. Maybe, if she will do that......just maybe he will block her, but don't count on it. I don't use FB simply b/c of all the trouble I have heard that it causes. So, I don't know too much about blocking & access. I have heard that some people talk in codes.....
Expect her to be pissed for a couple of weeks, at least. If she is truly having no contact with OM, then the anger will start to ease up, but she'll still have a "mood" b/c of resentment.
Keep detaching. That is very important.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
