Have you established any type of consequence for him when he gets in this abusive state?
I know, it sounds like repremanding a child. But, I think persons with any type of 'disorder' that makes them act inappropriately should kind of be treated that way. Disorders are over come by repitition of consequence for their actions. Atleast that's the way it used to be until medical technology caught up, and there's a "wonder drug" to cure it all.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11