It been a year and a half since my wife left and had an affair. Since then the affair fell apart 4 months or so after it started(he went back to his wife). My wife has lived with me and the kids until 3 months ago(she moved out). When she was with us she was on the phone(to you know who) caused many arguements. At this point our marriage is one sided. I want it to work-She does not. She drinks--We haven't made love in god knows when and the last time afterwords she told me she was still in love with him(the affair guy). Last night i gave her a goodbye letter. Not something i wanted to do but i am drained emotionally, mentally and so i have deceided to take care of myself-my kids and grandkids(they all live with me). I want things to be better but thats still one sided. I still don't know if thats the right thing to do but it's done now. In our marriage I did not cheat,drink alot,hit her, yell at her, put her down, I did get tired of being rejected over and over again. At this time we are still married as of yet I don't have the money for a divorce. When she did live with me it was like we were room-mates. Can't live like that.
