LT, Are you still hurting over your XH? I don't want to open up any old wounds, but what were some of the things you did/used to help you navigate these rough waters?
I sometimes feel sorry for myself, and BLAME myself for what has happened, and I know that it isn't my fault, but I do.
"embrace the suck" - Coach "don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy Let Go and Let God Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010