Originally Posted By: soleil
It takes TWO people to make it work, not just one. I know DBing says for one person to work on themselves but it actually takes both to come to an amicable solution for the problems in the long-run.


I always took that to mean it only takes one person to start the process of improving the relationship.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."