Also, I am really trying to detach, but my W is doing/saying/texting me things to hurt me. I am fine for a few days, and then she will do something to hurt me. Like her telling me she changed the locks-she knew that would hurt me.
She sent me a text on Monday saying that she didn't love me anymore and she could sleep with whoever she wanted now. Of course, I didn't respond to her
Good. Keep it that way. No responding to her when she is being rude/mean to you. When you do speak with her, limit it to the kiddos.
Originally Posted By: SoldierDad
I have asked this before, when does she start feeling some of this emotional pain I am feeling?
When does she realize what she is doing to our family? Our boys? She is so selfish in all of this.
Am not sure why she is texting you such vulgar things but my guess is when this dawns on her, it's going to come down on her like a ton of bricks.
You need to focus on YOU and the kids. If she wants to act like a child, then that is her problem. Don't bite.
