Gno,

Well, here's what I'm getting tho and is further clarified by your 'list'.

Somewhere along the line in friendships, family, and especially marriages, we all take everything cumulatively an ddon't even realise it. Isolated events become no longer that, but a piece of one gigantic cross-work of amassed dislikes of the other person involved.

This has to obviously be at least one fault your W accuses you of, and seeing your reaction to this isolated event, she IS validated.

We're all human, and we all fall into that pattern. Gotta get yourself out of it (there's a bonus when you seperate it all too). This was a uneccessary event, only because it hit on a repetitve nerving it shouldn't have. I'd hate to see you throw in the towel over this, it's not right.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11