Your situation is so similar to mine, except that I only found out about the affairs this summer. She had successfully hidden/lied/deceived me for the past couple of years, while continuing to play along with the charade of being my wife. Now that I know that entire truth, at least as far as who/when (not details), I'm going through so many of the same thoughts and feelings as you. I just wish that I was further along with my detachment like you, since it's still pretty fresh for me.
Just wanted to thank you for sharing your situation and let you know that you are not alone.
Me 45 WAW 36 S8 T 15 M 12 Multiple PA's since 6/07 W moved out 10/25/09 I filed D 12/29/09 Sitch
