Drew beat me to it, sorry Gno, but you're in the wrong on this one. You should have took the initiative to catch up, I smoke too, so I know where my responsibilities lie to make up for the 'down time'.
You chose to sit out and saulk on your own.
Suffice it to say, I think you owe your W an apology.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11