HHH, I too (although so very difficult) am making myself do things. I'm much stronger this time around. This happened two years ago for me too (found out of an affair with my best friend, he wanted out). I'm a different woman then I was then. Stronger. I too have found that I'm getting back to my old self. Laughing a lot, I've found that the time I do spend with him or talking usually ends up dragging me down. I've come along away and I hated hearing time heals it is true. We are not divorced yet but separated. My H is in a bad place and although that doesn't make me happy we are in different places mentally. He is going backwards and getting worse and I continue to improve.
If we end up divorced I too am considering a move. I'm here anytime HHH
