I'm with Steve. I completely understand wanting to know "everything" but that's not what the transparency thing is about. Steve is absolutely right; the details are far worse in the knowing than in the imagining, believe it or not. Everything written about coming back from affairs says the same thing--minimal details. yes, identity is ok.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
