I had the same exact feelings/thoughts as I was reading SC's post yesterday. It really struck a nerve with me. It is really hard to imagine that my STBXW was feeling that way, but it is reality.

I think one of the most confusing/depressing aspects of all of this for most LBS, is that the WAS is willing to be alone and deal with any hardships that come along with that, then to remain married to us and trying to make it work.

Last edited by pitinmygut; 12/23/09 04:36 PM.
Me 44/W 32
S1
M8
Bomb 9/25/09
Separate houses (about 1 hour apart)