I have a L. I was served in September and we have yet to set up a time for mediation. The meeting with the L this afternoon is just to fill out paperwork on the mediation or something. I am letting the L's handle things. She is pushing to just get it over with and do it ourselves.

Self-help books read plenty of them. And I have talked to DB Coach and MC individually in the past.



The thing that I do have trouble with is setting boundaries on her rude behavior without coming across as an a$$. As I posted above in the text I tried to set a boundary but not sure where the line is and feel that I was being an a$$. Next time I will have to use Coach's line on boundaries "I feel __ when __..."

"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33