But then, I think that we have hurt each other enough at this point. Isn't it worth another try? Aren't our kids worth it? Aren't we? I understand the answers to these questions, at least I think I do. But the questions illustrate my frustration. That I know we can make this work - but I DON't KNOW for HER. I just know she has apparently shut the door on working on us. For her, she would rather be alone than with me. And that cuts about as deeply as anything can.
Gima, I understand how frustrated you must feel. Defeated in a way. All you can do is let her know you're willing and if she's not then eventually a decision will have to be made. It takes two to tango.
