Oh Gno! What is going on?

[Drew]

Let me clarify. I didn't know Gno's sitch when I made my statement. I was merely looking at this one interaction with an outsider's objective eye. And my thoughts parallel iwantittowork's.

And if this is a 2x4, so be it.

Gno, you complain that SIL made you late, but then say you're plenty early, arriving at 7:30 PM for a 8:00 PM show. Which is it? Then, even though you don't have a cell phone to stay in touch, you chose to leave the group to go have a smoke. At that point, it's YOUR responsibility to catch up with the group. They did the smart thing and went inside and SAVED YOU A SEAT. Sounds pretty considerate to me. And quite honestly, my church holds a lot more than 1000 people and I can find someone saving me a seat in oh, two minutes or so.

No ticket you say? It's a church event, I'm sure if you went to the counter and explained that your party was already inside while you were parking the car/smoking they would have let you in. And you didn't need money for a ticket, they were taking charitable food donations as you stated.

Instead, you chose to stay outside and pout. Then picked a fight.

There are two sides to every story.

I'm a stubborn SOB too, but I'm working on it .....

We all have to own up to our relationship faults or we are doomed to repeat them.