GB - well it sounds like you and I are almost in Exactly the same situation. I got papers this past Saturday and H wanted me to just sign on the spot, without lawyers. We have nothing shared so it wouldn't be complicated but I'm still not signing on the spot. I also tried Retro one last time in Jan so that we could end things civil-ly. He just wants to be done and every talk we have even now about ending it seems to get nasty. Sometimes I wonder if it's better to just move on, but I know that's the last things either of us want to do.
I know this is hard right before Xmas. I went to church on Monday and just cried for about an hour. It's so hard, I hear you... my friend told me to just try to look for one good thing in every day..that's what I've been trying to focus on. I started reading Mars and Venus starting over but it just made me more sad. Have you read any helpful books or gone to IC?
