As things sit right now we are going to mediation. We could probably just do it ourselves and save the money as she wants to do it. I am talking to L this afternoon to get somethings lined up for mediation and a timeline. I don't think that we will be going to Retro as she agreed to previously. She decided that now she will only go if I sign the divorce papers before we go. So she was just trying to manipulate me into signing and then not going at all.
Get...an...attorney. You are playing with fire if you don't.