I read that story, and felt like she takes you for granted. That's the kind of thing that builds resentment, and ultimately you need to define what you willing to accept.
The only way around being taken for granted, or dispelling resentment is to communicate!
There's several spots in your story, where you could also have worked on communication, as there are a whole of assumptions being made, probably on both sides. Your W figured you would find your way inside, you figured she would be in line, and while you couldn't connect at that moment rather than build frustration and resentment in the car, you may have been able to take the lead a bit.
I know in your sitch, you may not be at that point, and it may be more beneficial to 'shake things up' to break the stalemate, though..
Just some thoughts, wish you well man!
Last edited by iwantittowork; 12/23/0904:04 PM.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
