Yes I would like to echo the thanks for posting HappyAgain's threads. It certainly is helpful to look into the MLC mind. I found that while reading those I wanted to say to him what I have wanted to say so often to my husband...."Wake up and get your head out of your xxxxx!" Of course it wouldn't have helped either one of them, and probably wouldn't have helped the situation either.
In really wonder how the holidays will go? My H has been much more of a bear lately, irritable, snappish. I am going to do my best to leave him alone as much as possible.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair