I just had a thought while writing down my own update, and after reading Kalni's post, wanted to pass my thought along for consideration here.
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Maybe it is a woman thing but I dont understand :"move on before you go back with your wife". Huh? SO, rob will not know himself unless he meets someone special (who wont be special because THEY are all the same anyway) other than his wife? Dont get it. Maybe because I am lacking testosterone...
Are you ready for a long term committed relationship with anyone at the present time?
If your not, and I know that I am not, then you have to include your Ex in that as well!
If we have not moved on to a healthy place being alone, finding ourselves, and are not ready ourselves to commit to what a long term relationship would be, then if you got back together with your Ex, how can you expect it to work out?
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
