Just jotting down some notes, as some things happened last night, and from other posters I have been following, and hope that anyone following keeps it in mind for there own sitch.
Dating: A dangerous DB game for yourself if your not careful.
I went on a date last night, I struggled with if I should or shouldn't, but she is a nice, attractive lady so I did.
We hit it off very easily, have a lot in common, and after a while, she made it known that she was VERY interested in me.
I got caught up in that for a while, after having been where I have been, and not having companionship, having my STBXW rejecting me for many months. It is easy to get caught up in the feeling good aspect of dating, and having someone show genuine interest in you!
However, realize, there are two people here, and I am in no way near or capable of any kind of relationship currently, and I know it.
That has to be out front, and clear, with any dating that you do, or you are going to hurt someone yourself, and that is not healthy!
If you do elect to date, do so with caution and caring!
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
