It has been 2 weeks now since I confronted H regarding A. It seems like its been longer and I am amazed at how quickly things change and how much has happemed since then.

Had my first IC appointment. It was good.

I ended up inviting H over to my parents for Christmas dinner. H said he would like to be there with the girls. My parents know we are not together but do not know the main reason. They will be happy to see him as my mom keeps asking if he is coming. I want DD4 and DD2 to have a positive Christmas experience and minimize any negative associations with the holidays as recommended by therapist.

And H has agreed to go next month with me for MC. smile
It will be a good start for the New Year.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to all who has provided me with wonderful advice and followed my sitch.


Me: 42, H: 43
Daughters: 7,5
Together: 16 Married: 9
Jan 2010- Piecing
Fen 2013 ????