Still struggling with some resentment, but I think that's normal.
That is normal, and it will come and go. I have made it my goal to accept it when it happens, and then work to someday remove it from my thoughts of STBXW.
With that in mind, I made the decision that I WILL work towards. Forgiveness of my STBXW Not to gloat, or feel happy when she has issues in her life moving forward. Not to feel sad about where I am, but to work on being grateful for what I have now, what we once did have, and knowing that I will have what I want in the future, whether that is healthy relationships, happiness, or whatever I determine at the time.
When I feel sad, angry, hurt, resentment, I move back to acceptance and what I want above to help manage those, and bring me back to center again.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
