NC with wife for one week

[GoBison]

Well spoke with wife again yesterday over text. We have little communication and each time it doesn't seem to go well. I was little too hard on her in my last reply and let emotions get in the way. But I was sick of her crap behavior and said what I did. I have not spoken to her since then. She is my niece's godmother but has not spoken to or seen her since April. So she has missed her (2nd)b-day and seening her as flowergirl in wedding. She also has not been in the house without me there since June the locks are changed.



W: I'm gonna drop niece's gift by the house and give the doggies a treat b4 work today...is that ok?


M: I'd rather you stopped at my place when I am home. You shud prolly just return the gift for niece. My sister wud rather you didn't give her anything.


W: Ok that's fine. I won't give it to her then...if that's how she wants it to be


M: She didn't say it to be mean. She just said that niece doesn't remember you and it wud confuse her since she will never see you again.


W: No I understand...its fine...I'm not mad.


M: For once why don't you say how you really feel instead of letting it fester. If you want a relationship with niece I'm not stopping you talk to my sister see my niece give her the gift. It is your choice how you want to handle it with her don't put me in between you and her and then be upset about it. I am done with this passive agressive crap say what you mean for once. This isn't how my sister WANTS it this is what you have chosen


W:I'm not mad! Wow!


As things sit right now we are going to mediation. We could probably just do it ourselves and save the money as she wants to do it. I am talking to L this afternoon to get somethings lined up for mediation and a timeline. I don't think that we will be going to Retro as she agreed to previously. She decided that now she will only go if I sign the divorce papers before we go. So she was just trying to manipulate me into signing and then not going at all.