First he was so quiet with no communication and disappeared for 3 weeks not even seeing the children now I think he is cycling towards home like mad!
He raised his head again on Monday when out of the blue he rang me about S16 christmas present. He offered to go and fetch D21 from Uni but I declined nicely and said we had it all arranged. He sounded a little disappointed.I also told him we had a busy week and that I had booked a nice family day out on Christmas Eve with tea in a restaurant afterwards. He was not invited just me and the children. He went quiet when I told him this.
Yesterday he texted me 5 times about safe trip to Uni, mind the ice and I'll come tomorrow (today) to give the cars the once over. Interestingly on his last mobile phone bill over 4 weeks he texted OW 15 times and me 42! They only live together occasional weekends and not in the week. I know we should have no expectations and I don't but has this happened to anyone else?
I was out delivering cards when he arrived. As always he looked old, pale and lost more weight. Even D21 who hasn't seen him for a few weeks commented on how old and worn out he looked.
He has spent 4 hours here in and out doing the cars, playing with the dogs and chatting to me and the children. Now he has taken them shopping and will come back here to finish off. He is also coming on christmas day again having messed everyone around whilst we waited for OW to make her mind up what she wanted to do.
He aslo wants to take two S13 and 16 out next week as a treat.
He last cycled about 4 weeks ago when he started making physical contact with me i.e touching my arm and standing beside me so we touched.It was after this that he completely withdrew.
Does anyone know if the decreasing times between cycles shows progress out of the tunnel or is this wishful thinking?
