GW, I have read your thread. You and I are in the same place. We exposed the A, established boundries, hoping we busted it but understand our limitations and are both taking a lot of crap from our Ws.
Last night, I asked God for the humility to focus on myself and release my negative emotions. Right now, this is the best thing we can do. It is hard. I find myself looping back to thoughts of how I was wronged and how I feel my wife should be more remorseful. Maybe you do to. But that does no good. We must move past our own negativity to achieve a more positive outlook to be in a position to restore ourselves and possibly our marriages.
