Thanks for the input. My W filed for divorce about 5 months ago and it has been a weird experience. She submitted some of the pre-liminary paperwork to my lawyer. My lawyer and I did as much as we could but her lawyer was drafting up the parenting plan and seperation agreement so we went into a waiting mode. For about two months nothing happened and then I get a call from my lawyer that her lawyer dumped her becuase she was failing to get back with them on certain things. So now she is attempting to do everything on her own via State paperwork that is avaialbe online. To be honest I am putting some pressure on her to wrap things up so I can move forward.
I have not talked about the OM for months but when I heard about the holiday situation I was really caught off guard and my emotions got the best of me. In any case, at least I now know how serious things have become between them, which in a way will help me move on. She has not introduced the OM to the kids yet, but I suspect that will happen soon. That will be my next hurdle to overcome.
