bestrong, the turkey and the lights are exactly the little things I mean! I only put the ornaments I liked on the tree this year and didn't use them all, which he normally does. I wanted the tree in a different room so we could see it, not so the neighbors could see it. I even bought myself stocking stuffers! I wish I found a way to put lights up on our house because he does that every year and I love it. But if we are D next year, I will find a way. Did you get yourself presents even though you are watching your spending?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004