Thanks Saffie. 90% of the time is how I deal with things in my head. Last couple of days I decided to act as if. He is responding very very well. Last night I snuggled close to him and told him, "how come I am the one that snuggles, kisses etc etc and not YOU?" in a playful voice. He squezzed me and gigggled and said "It has been like this all our life", I replied that "well, it's about time it changes!!" and since that moment, I would move, he would move closer to me, I would roll over to my stomach, he would come and put his arm around me, I almost felt pressured!!! LOL!
Anyway, his promise to be honest in the contex he did promise the other day, shifted something. We both feel it. I hope things work out. I am arranging counceling after the holidays...
Saffie, Merry Christmas to you and your family ... Thanks! (I will visit London after the holidays, are you there?) K
