But looking for space in the closet and NOT finding any was pretty hillarious.
LMAO. Too funny!
Difficult situation with SIL. I mean, it's great that he wants you to come to his family stuff, show you off as his W. But the situation with SIL sounds a little awkward. Would there be other people there? Can you avoid her for the most part?
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Good Morning, H comes over every night around 1:00. We talk and snuggle for at least 30 minutes. I am not waiting up for him but I havent given him keys to the house and he has to call me when he is outside to let him in... Yesterday we talked about presents, told me he wants us to go to the movies, out with some friends of his, joked with me, caressed my ...legs and it felt good, close and intimate. It was nice. I caught myself flirting with him. That was funny. Before I fell asleep I told him I was glad he was there and he said "I am glad too"...
He told me yesterday my D called him and asked him if he is staying with us beyond Christmas, "for ever and ever...?". He didnt know if I had told her anything and said "we will discuss this when I am home" and she replied "OK, but you will discuss this with ME, not mom, not anyone else, I decide!!!" She is so cute and totally in love with her dad... Sigh!
Tonight I am going to my division's party. I dont want to drink anything because I get VERY emotional when I do. H will be home earlier to babysit!!! LOL
Thanks Saffie. 90% of the time is how I deal with things in my head. Last couple of days I decided to act as if. He is responding very very well. Last night I snuggled close to him and told him, "how come I am the one that snuggles, kisses etc etc and not YOU?" in a playful voice. He squezzed me and gigggled and said "It has been like this all our life", I replied that "well, it's about time it changes!!" and since that moment, I would move, he would move closer to me, I would roll over to my stomach, he would come and put his arm around me, I almost felt pressured!!! LOL!
Anyway, his promise to be honest in the contex he did promise the other day, shifted something. We both feel it. I hope things work out. I am arranging counceling after the holidays...
Saffie, Merry Christmas to you and your family ... Thanks! (I will visit London after the holidays, are you there?) K
I am about 50 mins north of London by train. I would love to meet you if you came over if I was able to.
I am a bit tied up with the routine of the horses etc. but if I have enough notice I can probably sort myself out for a trip down to the 'big lights'. I am a 'country bumpkin' as we would say over here-lol. Or if you are a rider, or would like to see some of 'middle England' why not come out to me? I live about 40 mins away from the Cotswolds and also, (going in a different direction obviously), from where Princess Diana was brought up.
Most of my M battles since my H's A have been 'in my head'. I think that is the case for so many of us that have reconciled. It's wonderful to see the shift in you. (((((hugs))))))
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
