Resentment is normal. I'll keep saying it. Acknowledge your feelings.
I have you in my thoughts and prayers this xmas = you have been an amazing rock of support to me this year and I am extremely grateful for your presence in my virtual life.
Enjoy the kids and dogs on Xmas.
Oh, and you know me, I'm internally thrilled that my a$$hole H is finally being softer and kinder to me - and I know that is my weakness - forgiving too much of his emotional abuse. So, thanks for the reminder about keeping expectations in check. I had a good talk with myself over that one tonight