Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[chatterbug]

Cutter, I was not offended that you got my story mixed up! I have gone back to reread your story or P's and others as well!
:-)

Do you have the same top ENs as my WH? Is your primary love language acts of service?

I do think your perspective can be useful but at the same time, you sound more mature than WH! And you tried to communicate with your WW about your needs, right?


I guess I could just use ideas

Mine is quality time. Then Acts of service and physical touch. Affirmation and receiving gifts are the lowest.

Yea I complained about the quality time. Quite abit.



And yes I was quiet about work and childhood. Nor did I ask too many questions on her past. I just liked being around. Same room or just the sound of her near by. That was what felt good. Always phoned 2 times a day. Planned out a nice dinner for her. And well she got in late from work. So had to watch tv or something like that. Which was kind of boring. Liked doing small thoughtful things for her. Little things. Like remove the snow from the car for her. Buy her a book on quotes of her fav. sport. make her cd's of music. She thought I was very set in my ways. Which I am. I am working on that. Getting out of patterns. I was a conflict avoider. Thats for sure. I know better now.