Do what works - you have tried everything else. It hasn't worked. It maybe worth a try but it is HARD HARD work, emotionally. At the beginning I was tempted so many times but I didn't buckle. However remember it is not for them to be sucked back in. It's for you to sort yourself out.
I only did NC for about 3 months but had breaks when WH came to a dr. appt or labor class. I have to tell you honestly, it may be HARD at first, but after a month was SO MUCH easier and SO MUCH better than seeing him all the time! Maybe I am just in a dark place, but seriously, NC allows you to avoid the reminder of the alien the WS is. With kids, it is tough. But if you have been able to avoid WH during drop offs, then stick to it. Not knowing what will happen is tough that is for sure. But not seeing them really helps to dull the pain and heal and focus on what YOU want.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
