What do you fear if he notices it? What will happen?

As for your plans for next year, good start!!!
Are you doing things daily to help you feel better? For example, I just started wearing my contacts every day instead of glasses. I LOVE my glasses, but just wanted to do something different. Also, I have been styling my hair and wearing make up even if I am not seeing WH for several hours. It makes me feel better. Exercising helps and so does indulging in silly TV shows that only I like.

So what things can you do daily or maybe already are that are just for YOU?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004