Is this what people mean when they say piecing is the hardest part? Because now that there isn't as much focus on the "chase", now I'm faced with all the things in him that made me unhappy in the first place. He still has all the negative tendencies, but fortunately there is more good stuff in between. So, as much as I want my marriage to work there is still some verbal abuse - although it has been calming way down - and in MC yesterday he made it very clear that he not only "forgets" most of those episodes, he doesn't even see them as a problem. This piecing is going to take work!!!!!!!!!
This is my second thread, moved from Newcomers. Please give advice as to whether this is the right place for me or not.
H moved out 8 months ago - we share a S5 so H is here sleeping over (I'm on couch) half the week. Lots of tension and anger at me from H and not spending time together.
Beginning this month, we have begun MC - H has committed to 5 months of this "to see if we can work it out - or else move on to D."
