I can't offer you much advice because I'm new to this too, but at least you seemed to have caught it before she did see OM. You are doing the right thing coming here and reading books to try to change things in yourself. Keep it up and show her the man you can be.
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.
