It is a hard thing to understand MLC I think b/c we have not had one so we dont understand it
is it real?? or is it a case of a was
hard to tell
the only thing is the strange behavior that so many of these 40 something year olds seem to have
the younger woman or HS friend
the new friends
the secrets
the spending
the lying , cheating
irrwsponsibility with kids
the running
avoiding
I think it will become clearer later
as for us,
we can only keep moving growing, counseling changing so as to use this crises for our benefit and our growth
as it was probably planned for that
as for our H, our changes can only help any possibility of R
as you know, there is no way to know what will happen
only a long road of patience and change
hang in there

peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow