It is a hard thing to understand MLC I think b/c we have not had one so we dont understand it is it real?? or is it a case of a was hard to tell the only thing is the strange behavior that so many of these 40 something year olds seem to have the younger woman or HS friend the new friends the secrets the spending the lying , cheating irrwsponsibility with kids the running avoiding I think it will become clearer later as for us, we can only keep moving growing, counseling changing so as to use this crises for our benefit and our growth as it was probably planned for that as for our H, our changes can only help any possibility of R as you know, there is no way to know what will happen only a long road of patience and change hang in there
peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow