Gads, the woman turning 40 conumdrum again smile. There's a teeny weeny thingy at the back of my mind at times, praying my W does not EVER "lose it" again when she turns 40 and / or gets post-natal.

Re confiding in women friends. Are you sure, 100% sure, there's nothing there? I did confide in a couple during my sitch, sometimes it's true there's nothing more than friendship and concern and support there. Sometimes, things could spin out of control.


Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.