For the past month or so, I always tidy up, cook what he wants/likes, freshen up, threaten the kids (LOL), make sure laundry is done and put away... make sure all looks in control and inviting (Yes, candles - a fire in the fireplace - xmas lights on - glass of wine waiting).
Rocked is right on. It's working for me, at least in making our home a place of solace, not tension...
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
